Reading Your Attitude Card
The report that says "these are mine, and that is the whole point."
The card: the 365 Buttons card pulls three numbers - how many buttons you actually placed, your longest no-explanation streak, and your no-explanation index - and adds one line that reads you back. It is the thing you drop when someone asks "what are all those buttons even for," and instead of explaining, you send the number and let it say the thing you would not say in so many words.
The tiers: The Quiet Collector is the rare read - you placed the buttons and kept them, almost never handing over a reason. Mostly For Me means you kept most of them and slipped into the "well, actually" one or twice when it was easier. The Explainer is the honest one - every button came with a defense, which is the one place the whole year is not supposed to live.
How it lands: the card works because it turns the refusal into a stat. You do not have to stand your ground out loud; you send the index and the room understands. The person who is "for you" gets a quiet read, and the one who keeps asking gets the same card back. That is the move of the whole trend - the answer is always the same, and the number just proves it.