Accept Too Much vs Push Everything
The two ends of the Fairs spectrum and what sitting in the middle means.
The accepters: for the Fairs Master, Fairs is the default answer to almost every moment. The plan moved to next week? Fairs. The deposit is gone? Fairs. It is calm on the surface, but the cost is that they hold grudges very quietly and for a very long time, and one day it all comes out in a kitchen argument.
The pushers: The Pushback reads Fairs as a trap. Every accepted moment is a small loss and they want the win, even when the thing is genuinely fine and no one loses anything. The cost is that they are rarely at peace and rarely the first person to celebrate anything.
The middle: the Selective Accepter accepts the genuinely fine things and pushes back only where it actually matters. It is the hardest type because it requires noticing, every single moment, which one you are in - the Fairs one or the fight one - before you say the word.